Judge denise meagher
May 6, 2010
I am so relieved to know that there are others like me out there. I havent been posting on this blog regularly because it is painful to relive my experiences over and over. However i always check posts and messages and will approve ur messages as soon as i can. I hope others find solace in eachothers posts and that maybe one day Judge Denise Meagher will understand that her lack of compassion and disrespect for actual facts has caused harm to many people especially all of our children.
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Hello, I am so happy I found this site, Thank you so much. I was starting to think I was going crazy. This Person is out of control, wrecking families! I have been fighting in her court room for 5 years and just last Friday her and my ex flat out laughed at me and treated me like I should have just stayed home. I hope people keep posting. I know it helps me to remember I am not alone and the truth is that we are not. Thank you so much.
Hi Renee, I understand exactly how you feel. This Judge is an unfeeling B—–, and should be removed. I lost my three children to my manipulative ex-husband, been to court three times, and I swear she does not even pay attention to the circumstances I have presented to her. He also lived in Shrewsbury, MA where she resides, and I swear they know each other. This suggests bias, and even though he has not followed through on prior court orders, she rules in his favor! Her husband is also an attorney in Shrewsbury, and this must tell you something. She belittles me in court, makes me feel stupid, and it is hard to address her as “your honor” when I feel she is a piece of crap! She does not respect me, so I have no respect for her. I wonder if she even reads the statements from friends I bring to the court sessions, or she just ignores them to move the process along. I dislike her so much, and any help others have that have attorneys that may have information would come forth with any comment. Renee, I am truly sorry for what you have been going through, and wish you luck in the future! My children will know what their father has done to me as they get older, but his brainwashing and manipulation at their young age would not be conducive at this point.
Sincerely,
A friend
I am so sorry lin. I dont think judge meagher has any understanding of what these children and us their mothers are going thru. She truly does not rule on facts. Now that i have read other peoples comments i understand its not me im not crazy or a whining mom who lost her children. We have lost our children because of an unfit judge and broken custody system. And our voices are never heard. We are not the big trials seen on tv. Im so sad reading everyones posts. And know there are many more of us out there. I wish i could make this site blog better but i can only dip into this sadness every now and again by approving posts like yours. Be well love ur children in anyway that u can. Stay strong.
I felt so alone in that courtoom. Everyone thinks if u do good things and be a good person that justice will prevail. Well family court i have found is unlike any other court that i have been in or have seen on tv. There are no real rules no set of standards to really determine the best interests of the children. Its just who has the most $$$. Judge meagher does not listen care or remember your case. She lets the attorney with more $$ say whatever they want and have as much leeway and time that they want. She will drag out each point in a case to get each lawyer more $$$. Regardless of childrens wellbeing or anyone elses time.
At certain points in her courtroom i had to remain sitring as i was so overwhelmed with fear anger and emotion from her ridiculous unfair handling of my case i had to hold onto something as i was afraid i would faint.
It was so unbelievable to me that family court is basically a circus with her as the ringleader. The crazier the lies implications and completely fabricated stories my exs attorney would weave the more she wanted to hear and encouraged.
When i would b reading a one sheet statwment of facts pertaining to my case not girly feelings or emotions actual facts she would never listen. She would b rolling her eyes talking to others tapping her pencil etc.. I was completely respectful and spoke properly to her and she would never take anything i said seriously.
I read and researched about how to handle myself as well as document my case properly. I had notebooks w diaries photos timelines emails. I went thru two lawyers and about 35.000 before i realized that no matter what i did or said or what every court appointed profesional testified to her my ex had more $$$ end of story.
One of the final times in her courtroom i went in w not a single paper or note. Think i even wore jeans. I listened to my exs lawyer speak and when she came to ask me if i had anything to say i simply said. For years i have been in this courtroom w evidence documents, u have heard from at least 3 court appointed by u officials state that i should have full custody of my children. Thru all of this u have never listened to them or me y would i assume that u are going to start listening to me now. Or words very similar and if i recall the secretary who over the years i felt had at least a little compassion for me nodded her head and looked directly at me like she was with me. My little victory in a sea of tragedy. Someone heard me. I just know someday my kids will see all the documents and discover what their father and his family did to them. He deprived them of their mother and brother. Someday they will come to me and hug me and say mommy we missed u. And ill have the rest of my life to get to b reunited w them. My oldest said something awesome to me. He said u know mom sean got these years of their lives from you, from like three till 18. You will get the rest of their lives. Ive held onto that thoight ever since.